My longread on Xaviera Hollander, who inspired the term 'happy hooker', for Compact Magazine (subscribe for only $9 a month, cancel anytime) https://www.compactmag.com/article/the-unhappy-hooker/
“I get excited/angry by the way you look or what you say and this is not my problem and responsibility. But the fact that I demonstrate phallocentrism, abuse against you and you don’t like it, this is also not my problem and responsibility.” That's what clowning is.
“I’m such a loyal female to phallocentrism, I like it so much (yes, dick is pride and it’s not discussed, and all the consequences arising from this position are another story), but tomorrow I’m going to a march against machismo.” That's what clowning is.
There is no common sense in your actions, miss phalloplasty and cut off tits (your pansexual female is only turned on by this), nor in self-harm, nor in self-deception, nor in ridicule of women in general.
Go crawl through the men's restrooms, despite the fact that you are a female. Female with misogony and plastic surgery. Let not female, but male spaces be open to everyone: men, trans men (females), trans women (males), non-binary, intersex (male or female in any case).
Trans "women"! You are male predators
Alas, but fans of phallocentrism can't perceive the words "phallocentrism, dick" neutrally, and they can't accept the phrase "phallocentrism is offensive" (they count when, how, and how much it's mentioned, and they get upset when it's not in a context that suits them; they also see a dick even when it's about a vagina). But they can live with it.
Look, I understand that hetero women like men. I really don't care what you do in your beds. But I don’t believe that normal hetero women like the public ego and dick shaking of all men in a row. And we lesbians don’t need it at all.
Some manipulators may say, "You're a lesbian, what difference does it make to you what happens between men and women?".
SO... What difference does it make to anyone that women are subjected to domestic violence, harassment on the streets, at work, in schools? Who cares if forced child marriages and castration of women are still practiced? Who cares if women are bullied based on lesbophobia? Who cares if women are involved in the prostitution industry? Who cares that phallocentrism is offensive to many women. I'm not going to report to anyone about what I can or cannot research. I'm a woman, and everything feminine concerns me.
No matter what is said, 90% of men don’t give a damn what women feel and want. But everything that is said is primarily an appeal to women and only their thinking and behavior changes something.
The male vision of the world and women and the penis as a symbol of sex is this because most women and men like males and penis? This is the logic?
Men flaunt their egos and junk because it is their personal self-affirmation. And women, including feminists, brandish dildos not so much because they are hetero and the penis is a panacea for female sexuality, but because they are accustomed to phallocentrism in everything and do not know a variety of cool techniques and thinking in general. Alas, even many LGB people see the world through the prism of dildos.
“Yes, women are not Adam’s ribs, yes, and we also know a lot of sexual techniques and combinations.” But the patriarchal view of women continues to flourish, as does violence. And the “face” of sex is the penis or dildo. Aren't you ashamed? lol
You must accept life as it is and understand that a woman is not a fantasy of men, female sexuality is not the prism of a penis, dildo, or strap-on only. Not everyone will be silent about this, not everyone will be silent about patriarchy and gender-based violence.
A good lesbian and a good female-oriented bi woman has nimble fingers and a tongue that knows how to stimulate the clitoris and G-spot and other erogenous zones of the female body. "Give and receive" is female interaction. They (we) love pussies and the entire female body. We are women and we understand the soul, thinking, feelings of other women.
Only naturalness and sensuality.
A bad lesbian and a bad bi woman offer dildos, strap-ons, threesomes to other women because they want to be like the machios who fuck women or watch a male fuck women or be fucked with a strap-on because she is used to a penis.
I REPEAT AGAIN (you pretend not to understand) that this is not about orientation and not about your preferences in bedrooms. But this absurdity “this is your minority problem! but most women like dicks and accordingly (???) public phallocentrism.” And then these women shout at marches against machismo. Clown Society.
You know what? I give you 1000% that every man loves his dick more than even the horniest woman and more than your holes. And you don’t like your own holes at all.
Some women had triggers and they didn’t want me to talk about female physiology, sexuality, the problems of phallocentrism, trans ideology. But when one woman was raped, she no longer said words like “none of your business.” She began to believe that what happened to her was a socio-political problem.
THE TRUTH ABOUT WOMEN IS that for normal women, phallocentrism and public dick shaking are offensive. Normal men don't do this either. But the majority do this in one way or another, entertaining themselves, each other, and women who absolutely disrespect the feminine nature, of whom, alas, there are many, even among the seemingly self-sufficient.
Are you against the prostitution and porn industry? You will be faced with a wave of stench. Are you against trans ideology? You will be faced with a wave of stench. Are you against machismo and phallocentrism? You will be faced with a wave of stench. And even those who participate in anti-violence actions will stink.
“She has a short skirt / she has a low neckline / she talks about women / she talks about the unacceptability of phallocentrism” - don't stick out, it’s your own fault. Familiar story and tricks? (even women with misogony say this, besides male predators). And then continued dick shaking.
My position is this: if a woman, for any of her personal reasons, is not able to show solidarity with another woman or to say on her own that phallocentrism is offensive, then keep silent. No need for gaslighting or toxic care. Don't show off in front of me. If you're silent in front of men, be silent in front of me as well. Keep silent, as if you have a dick in your mouth. That's how it is
It's insane that I remember reading "The Happy Hooker" and "Xaviera On The Best Part of A Man" in 1980 when I was 14. I bought them one summer when on holiday with my family. I can't believe my conservative, middle class parents seemed OK with me having those books. I actually had no idea until now that there was a film of the first book. I think it was the second book that had a chapter called "Keep It As Clean As A Whistle, Or It Wont Get Blown". They obviously made a big impression on me, for me to remember all these years later.
I have a vinyl copy of Xaviera's 1973 spoken-word album. It must have been popular with the hippy crowd, because the corner of the sleeve was torn off to make roaches.
well said! A less "Happy" hooker wrote this very short diary which I illustrated https://www.amazon.com/Diary-High-Risk-Lifestyle-Kay-Buckingham-ebook/dp/B0FRGBGWPG
“I get excited/angry by the way you look or what you say and this is not my problem and responsibility. But the fact that I demonstrate phallocentrism, abuse against you and you don’t like it, this is also not my problem and responsibility.” That's what clowning is.
“I’m such a loyal female to phallocentrism, I like it so much (yes, dick is pride and it’s not discussed, and all the consequences arising from this position are another story), but tomorrow I’m going to a march against machismo.” That's what clowning is.
I don’t know if I am sad or infuriated
Trans "men"!
There is no common sense in your actions, miss phalloplasty and cut off tits (your pansexual female is only turned on by this), nor in self-harm, nor in self-deception, nor in ridicule of women in general.
Go crawl through the men's restrooms, despite the fact that you are a female. Female with misogony and plastic surgery. Let not female, but male spaces be open to everyone: men, trans men (females), trans women (males), non-binary, intersex (male or female in any case).
Trans "women"! You are male predators
Alas, but fans of phallocentrism can't perceive the words "phallocentrism, dick" neutrally, and they can't accept the phrase "phallocentrism is offensive" (they count when, how, and how much it's mentioned, and they get upset when it's not in a context that suits them; they also see a dick even when it's about a vagina). But they can live with it.
Look, I understand that hetero women like men. I really don't care what you do in your beds. But I don’t believe that normal hetero women like the public ego and dick shaking of all men in a row. And we lesbians don’t need it at all.
Some manipulators may say, "You're a lesbian, what difference does it make to you what happens between men and women?".
SO... What difference does it make to anyone that women are subjected to domestic violence, harassment on the streets, at work, in schools? Who cares if forced child marriages and castration of women are still practiced? Who cares if women are bullied based on lesbophobia? Who cares if women are involved in the prostitution industry? Who cares that phallocentrism is offensive to many women. I'm not going to report to anyone about what I can or cannot research. I'm a woman, and everything feminine concerns me.
No matter what is said, 90% of men don’t give a damn what women feel and want. But everything that is said is primarily an appeal to women and only their thinking and behavior changes something.
The male vision of the world and women and the penis as a symbol of sex is this because most women and men like males and penis? This is the logic?
Men flaunt their egos and junk because it is their personal self-affirmation. And women, including feminists, brandish dildos not so much because they are hetero and the penis is a panacea for female sexuality, but because they are accustomed to phallocentrism in everything and do not know a variety of cool techniques and thinking in general. Alas, even many LGB people see the world through the prism of dildos.
“Yes, women are not Adam’s ribs, yes, and we also know a lot of sexual techniques and combinations.” But the patriarchal view of women continues to flourish, as does violence. And the “face” of sex is the penis or dildo. Aren't you ashamed? lol
You must accept life as it is and understand that a woman is not a fantasy of men, female sexuality is not the prism of a penis, dildo, or strap-on only. Not everyone will be silent about this, not everyone will be silent about patriarchy and gender-based violence.
A good lesbian and a good female-oriented bi woman has nimble fingers and a tongue that knows how to stimulate the clitoris and G-spot and other erogenous zones of the female body. "Give and receive" is female interaction. They (we) love pussies and the entire female body. We are women and we understand the soul, thinking, feelings of other women.
Only naturalness and sensuality.
A bad lesbian and a bad bi woman offer dildos, strap-ons, threesomes to other women because they want to be like the machios who fuck women or watch a male fuck women or be fucked with a strap-on because she is used to a penis.
TWO ABSOLUTE HUMILIATIONS AND MISTAKES OF FEMINISM (we are not talking about everyone, but alas about the majority and about the trend).
1) Swallow the idea that a trans woman (male) is a woman.
2) Talk about the negatives of patriarchy, the unacceptability of harassment and violence, while encouraging public dick shaking.
I REPEAT AGAIN (you pretend not to understand) that this is not about orientation and not about your preferences in bedrooms. But this absurdity “this is your minority problem! but most women like dicks and accordingly (???) public phallocentrism.” And then these women shout at marches against machismo. Clown Society.
You know what? I give you 1000% that every man loves his dick more than even the horniest woman and more than your holes. And you don’t like your own holes at all.
Some women had triggers and they didn’t want me to talk about female physiology, sexuality, the problems of phallocentrism, trans ideology. But when one woman was raped, she no longer said words like “none of your business.” She began to believe that what happened to her was a socio-political problem.
THE TRUTH ABOUT WOMEN IS that for normal women, phallocentrism and public dick shaking are offensive. Normal men don't do this either. But the majority do this in one way or another, entertaining themselves, each other, and women who absolutely disrespect the feminine nature, of whom, alas, there are many, even among the seemingly self-sufficient.
Are you against the prostitution and porn industry? You will be faced with a wave of stench. Are you against trans ideology? You will be faced with a wave of stench. Are you against machismo and phallocentrism? You will be faced with a wave of stench. And even those who participate in anti-violence actions will stink.
“She has a short skirt / she has a low neckline / she talks about women / she talks about the unacceptability of phallocentrism” - don't stick out, it’s your own fault. Familiar story and tricks? (even women with misogony say this, besides male predators). And then continued dick shaking.
My position is this: if a woman, for any of her personal reasons, is not able to show solidarity with another woman or to say on her own that phallocentrism is offensive, then keep silent. No need for gaslighting or toxic care. Don't show off in front of me. If you're silent in front of men, be silent in front of me as well. Keep silent, as if you have a dick in your mouth. That's how it is
It's insane that I remember reading "The Happy Hooker" and "Xaviera On The Best Part of A Man" in 1980 when I was 14. I bought them one summer when on holiday with my family. I can't believe my conservative, middle class parents seemed OK with me having those books. I actually had no idea until now that there was a film of the first book. I think it was the second book that had a chapter called "Keep It As Clean As A Whistle, Or It Wont Get Blown". They obviously made a big impression on me, for me to remember all these years later.
I have a vinyl copy of Xaviera's 1973 spoken-word album. It must have been popular with the hippy crowd, because the corner of the sleeve was torn off to make roaches.