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Nick from Suffolk's avatar

Wadhwa and other blokes who present themselves as ladies have never had and will never have the essential experience that all real women go through, either in their teens and often throughout their lives. The constant fear of male aggression. An experience that must surely be essential to anyone’s ability to work with female rape victims. My daughter has spent her life crossing the road, not entering lifts and avoiding places and situations that I would take for granted. And before anyone says that men frequently take steps to avoid personal danger, it’s not the same as fear of sexual violence, which brings a whole range of stuff into play, including guilt and shame, however undeserved. Wadhwa’s original appointment was an act of extraordinary insensitivity and stupidity. Those that allowed and sanctioned it were either unhinged or malevolent. Sadly, the latter seems more likely.

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L Word's avatar

Not only does she need to fall but that Board of Trustees with her. This is one of the most appalling things I have read.

What part didn’t they understand that it was a huge risk factor to allow men who self ID as women to work with female rape survivors? The damage was foreseeable.

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