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Evelyn Ball, LMFT's avatar

Brilliantly clear, and undramatic. A very useful essay to share with others. Thank you for posting.

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Betsy Warrior's avatar

As far as "biological essentialism" goes we can't claim there are any basic, essential differences between men and women, right? Because if we did acknowledge differences that would be admitting women are unredeemably inferior to men. After all, haven't we bought the long-held popular opinion that women are weak, stupid, cowardly and emotionallly overwrought, while men are strong, rational and courageous? This is what women like Evan Urquhart, the Slate writer, believed ever since she was a child, which is why she eventually identified as a man. Many people have bought this conviction, but they don't admit it. It's the corrosive lie that leads many women to deny some essentially uniquely female qualities possibly emotional intelligence, nurturing tendencies more generally displayed by females, even as children. Many men possess these qualities too, but women's essential capacity to give birth would make it imperative that she is equipped to nurture, if you believe in evolution, that is, otherwise the human race never would have survived to exceed all bounds of planetary survival. As more and more biological evidence accumulates indicating subtle sexual differences between the sexes, it becomes more and more repugnant hearing some people deny women's claim to their own value. It simply demonstrates that many women are so fearful of accepting their identity they must deny any special essence. B.S.! I'm so sick of hearing this woman-hating twaddle

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